Example
2 people agree to do some caches. Ahead of time they discuss time to meet. Once a couple of times are presented, a compromise is struck and the time is determined. They also discuss vehicles and decide which one and who drives. They find out one of them is a better navigator and the other has the better vehicle. An unspoken rule has been formed. One will now be the driver the other will be the navigator. If a disagreement comes up, the alpha dog, usually wins. When they get to the cache it is a multi, full of math and clues. Each one will put forth their best effort. Alas the time has come to perform, either find the cache or, admit a mistake and try again. If the team is to survive, and cache together again, those rules that have been made will most likely stay in place. After doing several caches, the team has discovered strengths and weaknesses. Using each other, they capitalize on each other's strengths and have very few defeats.
Why not live life like it is your last day....instead of pretending to be a member of the Peter Pan Club and believing you will be around forever.