I think WhereRWe and Dubord are the ones that need to work this out. An apology is a wonderful thing. Most of the time it clears the air and life can go on. There are times even when an apology can be given even when and if you think you did nothing wrong.
I don't think there should be any posting along the lines of what someone else thinks about this whole thing. What is to be gained by that?
It sure sounds to me like we are playing defense rather than trying to move on.
Just my two cents worth.
I'd really rather not cache, but I am helpless in the grip of my compulsion!