Moving this here so we don't hijack the ATTroll thread. After all, we don't want him to get lost in the cooking. He needs to stay on the trail.
Dan - all the recipes in the world don't make up for the memory you recounted. We had a meal at my brother's in-law's when we visited them in SC. His mother-in-law is a true southern lady in every sense of the word. We could have the same meal here and it wouldn't be as good.